Colette Jane Fehr
Psychologist and couples therapist who researches communication in relationships and is the author of The Cost of Quiet, focusing on how avoided conversations erode intimacy.
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Feb 5, 2026 • 30min
How to Have the Hard Conversations Before It’s Too Late
Colette Jane Fehr, psychologist and couples therapist who studies communication, and Ashley Pallathra, therapist and clinical researcher focused on attunement, discuss confronting avoided conversations. They explore how silence corrodes closeness, how bodily threat responses drive fights, and practical attunement skills like calm awareness, listening, perspective-taking, and small honest check-ins.
