STSA Church Podcast The Well: REALationship Goals, Pt. 1: Christ-Centered
Jan 26, 2026
A candid look at why social-media romance ideals miss the point. A pastor reflects on 25 years of marriage, the real struggles, and choosing memories that matter. Four REALationship goals are introduced with a focus on making Christ the center. Practical guidance on praying together and simple habits couples and singles can start today.
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Companionship Over Staged Romance
- Fr. Anthony Messeh says romantic social-media pictures are poor relationship goals compared to daily companionship and friendship.
- He finds 25 years of marriage richer because he gets to spend life with his best friend, not because of staged romance.
Anniversary Fight Ended The Date Alone
- Fr. Anthony recounts an anniversary fight that left him watching Romeo and Juliet alone while his wife sat elsewhere in the theater.
- The story illustrates how even romantic plans can be derailed by unresolved conflict if couples don't work on oneness.
Use Four Mini Goals To Aim For Oneness
- Fr. Anthony lists four practical marriage goals: Christ-centered, mission-driven, devil-kicking, covenant-keeping.
- He advises using these focused mini-goals together to pursue ultimate oneness with your spouse.
