The Art of Manliness #379: How to Spot Red Flags in a Relationship
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Feb 13, 2018 
Sean Smith, a Denver-based clinical psychologist and author of The Tactical Guide to Women, dives into the intricacies of spotting red flags in relationships. He shares cautionary tales about the emotional and financial risks of hasty decisions, emphasizing the importance of intentional dating. The discussion critiques societal pressures on masculinity and advocates for assertiveness in partnerships. Smith highlights essential emotional skills and the need for clear communication to navigate challenges, ensuring compatibility and fostering healthier connections.
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Know Your Values First
- Define your core values clearly, including sex and money.
- Understand your life purpose to identify compatible partners.
Date Beyond Honeymoon Phase
- Date long enough to pass the honeymoon phase before making big commitments.
- Observe how both of you behave when neurochemical infatuation fades.
Manage Values Differences Wisely
- Conflicting values are deal breakers; differing values can add vitality.
- Agree on tough topics where possible; respect differences otherwise.
