
Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Raising Boys Who Become Men People Actually Respect (with Andre Casson)
Mar 24, 2026
Andre Casson, headmaster and longtime educator focused on character formation, discusses what boys need to become respectful men. He explores values, discipline and the power of role models. He talks about why boys disengage and how schools and families can work together. Practical ideas include meaningful challenges, low-pressure conversations and surrounding boys with positive male influences.
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Reframe Toxic Masculinity With Intentional School Culture
- Toxic masculinity conversations miss the point; schools should model healthy masculinity through intentional curricula and strong role models.
- Brisbane Boys College uses the Keeping Safe Child Protection Curriculum and older students plus staff to normalise consent and respectful behaviour.
Align Parents Teachers And Students As A Trinity
- Do align parents, teachers and the student as a 'Holy Trinity' so values are reinforced consistently across home and school.
- Andre calls for synchronous effort, using rowing as a metaphor: pulling the oar in the same direction improves outcomes.
Use Fathers And Senior Boys To Teach Values
- Do engage fathers and older students directly to teach values; boys internalise lessons better from peers and practical activities.
- Andre ran father-son sessions led by year 11 boys to model leadership and authenticity.

