Shameless Sex

#474 From Shut Down to Turned On with Dr. Moali & Keeley Rankin, MA

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Feb 24, 2026
Keeley Rankin, MA — a body‑based sex and relationship coach focused on safety and boundaries. Dr. Nazanin Moali — a trauma‑informed clinical psychologist and sex expert. They explore how shame shows up in sex and relationships. They share tools to notice shame in the body, create safety, practice saying no, and cultivate curiosity and embodied connection.
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ADVICE

Concrete Tips To Explore Squirting

  • Practical tips for squirting include hydration, G-spot curved toys, external vibrators like the Magic Wand, and porn as visual learning.
  • Hosts recommend Erica Lust's ethical squirting category and using G-curved toys to massage toward the belly button.
INSIGHT

Sexual Shame Is Learned Not Innate

  • Sexual shame is a cultural inheritance, not a personal failure.
  • Nazanin Moali explains sexual response is natural and shame is learned from religion, gender scripts, and social messages that label sexuality as defective.
INSIGHT

Where Sexual Shame Typically Comes From

  • Multiple common sources feed sexual shame including religion, parental reactions to masturbation, porn, medical trauma, racism, and media body ideals.
  • Nazanin lists concrete origin stories like being caught masturbating, medical dismissals, and queer stigma that shape self-worth.
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