Do you ever feel like you're doing so much for everyone in your life—managing relationships, fixing problems, carrying the emotional load—only to end up completely burned out? Today, I sit down with the incredible Terri Cole, psychotherapist and author of Boundary Boss, to uncover why so many of us fall into this cycle and, most importantly, how to break free.

Terri dives deep into what high-functioning codependency really looks like, and trust me, it’s not the old-school definition you might have in mind. This conversation hit home for me in a big way, and I got super vulnerable about my own recovery journey. Together, we unpack everything from unsolicited advice-giving (yep, we’ve all done it!) to setting boundaries that stick and respecting others' autonomy even when it’s hard.

If you’re constantly over-functioning, people-pleasing, or just plain exhausted from “managing” everyone in your life, this episode is your permission to stop. You’ll walk away with actionable steps to start shifting your habits, nurture healthier relationships, and finally put yourself back on your priority list. Tune in for this and much more!

"You need to get in recovery. Because we need everything that you have to give to the world, and you're only going to be able to do it if you're not micromanaging a million other people." ~ Terri Cole

In this episode:

- Defining high-functioning codependency

- Recognizing codependent traits and behaviors

- How to escape the advice-giving trap

- Overcoming the fear of setting boundaries

- Dealing with the illusion of control and its impact

- Managing emotional triggers during recovery

- Self-sacrificing and auto-accommodating behaviors

- Anticipatory planning and over-functioning in relationships

- Action steps to break codependent habits

- The path to recovery and peace

- Recognizing and dealing with personal growth in recovery

- Embracing joy and peace: the evidence of codependency recovery

- How to access the High-Functioning Codependency Toolkit

Resources Mentioned in the Episode:

Boundary Boss: The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen, and (Finally) Live Free: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1683647688

Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1649631863

High-Functioning Codependency Toolkit (HFC Toolkit): https://www.terricole.com/hfc/

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About Terri Cole:

Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist and global relationship and empowerment expert and the author of Boundary Boss and Too Much!

For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs. She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change.

She inspires over a million people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. For more, see terricole.com.

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