The Art of Manliness

How to Have the Manners and Charm of a Proper English Gentleman

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May 27, 2025
William Hanson, a British etiquette expert and author of "Just Good Manners," shares the secrets of modern etiquette to help you navigate social situations with grace. He discusses the crucial differences between manners and etiquette, offers tips on introductions and small talk, and delves into the quirks of British dining customs like the dreaded "no elbows on the table." Plus, he explores unique elevator etiquette and queuing culture, making it clear that good manners are timeless, no matter where you are.
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When to Start Eating Etiquette

  • Guests should wait until all diners have their food before starting.
  • The host usually signals the start by picking up their cutlery first.
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Host Eating Pace Etiquette

  • Hosts should pace eating by matching the slowest diner.
  • Hosts start eating first and finish last to include everyone.
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Navigating Dinner Place Settings

  • Use the "outside-in" rule for place settings if the table is set properly.
  • American informal settings are confusing and often break the outside-in rule.
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