Kings of Legacy 3 Toxic Traits to Leave Behind in 2024
Dec 24, 2024
A year-end conversation on ditching mind-reading and instead asking open questions to reconnect. A cautionary story about assumptions escalating into needless fear. Tips for reframing goals from negatives to positives. A warning against treating kids like KPIs and simple rituals to shift from work mode to present parenting.
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Stop Mind Reading
- Avoid assuming you know what others think and ask directly instead of guessing.
- Use simple openers like "Is there anything on your mind?" to open honest dialogue.
Client Nearly Prepped For Divorce Over Assumptions
- A client spiraled so badly he considered speaking to a solicitor over imagined divorce.
- Rich James Jackson intervened and suggested simple presence like a hug could change everything.
Focus On What You Want
- Reframe negatives into positive desires to give your mind clear direction.
- Say "I want my family connected and thriving" instead of "I don't want us fighting."