
Lights On with Carl Lentz Your Husband Is Lying. Your Nervous System Knows It.
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Three listener questions. All of them about what betrayal actually does to a
person. Not just to the marriage. To the voice inside that kept saying
something is wrong.
A woman who spent years convincing herself she was the problem just found out
her husband has a gambling addiction and has been lying to her for years. Carl
and Laura break down the difference between intuition and anxiety, why
gaslighting trains you to distrust the nudge, and the three-step process for
rebuilding self-trust. Carl also delivers something every husband in recovery
needs to hear: full disclosure does not just help your wife. It restores her
confidence in herself.
A woman two years into dating a man she loves has discovered multiple lies
about his past. He is honest when confronted. Never before. Carl and Laura
explain why being honest when caught is not the same as being honest, and why
the question is never about his past. It is about his integrity under low
pressure. Because marriage does not reduce pressure. It multiplies it.
A woman three years past her husband's infidelity is still together, has done
the work, and still feels emotionally abandoned. Carl distinguishes remorse
from repair. One says I am sorry. The other says I can stay present in your
pain. Most men only know how to do one.
This episode will challenge anyone who believes that stopping the behavior
is the same thing as doing the work.
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