Raising Good Humans S2 Ep 29: When There Is a Favorite Parent And Giving Space to Your Co-Parent
Dec 3, 2021
Einat Nathan, a bestselling author and parent educator known for her insights on parenting dynamics, joins Dr. Aliza Pressman to discuss the complexities of co-parenting. They dive into how evolving roles, especially with more involved fathers, shift family dynamics. The duo explores how different parenting styles enrich children's development and offer tips for handling a child's preference for one parent. With practical advice on maintaining harmony and avoiding ego-driven corrections, this conversation is a treasure trove for parents navigating these challenges.
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Kids Learn From Parental Tone And Style
- Children absorb the tone between parents and learn from different parenting styles, not just the rules.
- Einat Nathan says varied approaches enrich emotional and social learning more than uniform parenting.
Dads With Carriers Once Were Unthinkable
- Einat Nathan recounts earlier eras when dads with carriers were assumed widowers and not caregivers.
- She uses this to show how father involvement has dramatically changed over 20 years.
Let Partners Practice Without Micro‑Correction
- Avoid correcting a partner during caregiving moments to protect their confidence and willingness to help.
- Aliza Pressman warns that constant correction removes incentive for partners to pitch in again.
