The Daily Dad Who Will You Be?
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Feb 12, 2026 A look at contrasting parenting styles through Abraham Lincoln's life. Stories about a fraught father-son relationship and how Lincoln chose warmth with his own kids. Reflections on grief, mortality, and how loss shaped gentle parenting. Brief mentions of a parenting book and ways to connect with a community.
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Lincoln’s Difficult Childhood Shaped His Parenting
- Abraham Lincoln suffered under a father who resented his talent and even destroyed his books.
- That childhood shaped Lincoln to bind his own children with affection and play instead of punishment.
Choose To Break The Cycle
- Lincoln reversed his father's harshness by choosing warmth, play, and pride with his sons.
- That choice reflects how parenting can intentionally correct one’s own upbringing rather than repeat it.
Playful, Forgiving Fatherhood
- Lincoln never used corporal punishment and loved to play, even taking his boys to work with him.
- His law partner complained Lincoln seemed blind to their faults, saying he would have laughed at mischief like rubbing feces on his boots.