Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast

Guardrail #9: Send It from "Us" - Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage EP 988

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Apr 6, 2026
Mike Stepper, a local concrete business owner and nearly 30-year married volunteer, shares practical marriage and leadership examples. They unpack how gift-giving can create temptation and confusion. They explain why sending gifts from "us" instead of "me" protects relationships. Practical workplace rules and public acts of affirmation are highlighted as small but powerful guardrails.
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ADVICE

Send Gifts From Us Not From Me

  • Send gifts and compliments using plural language like we, us, or from the company to prevent personal story loops.
  • Mike Stepper describes gifting through the company or team so recipients don't reciprocate toward one man and cause temptation.
ANECDOTE

Handsome Doctor Opened A Story Loop

  • Jim shared a story of a female patient flirting with a pediatrician who lamented his wife made him stop after two kids, which opened a tempting story loop.
  • The woman later confessed to a friend and the temptation subsided.
ANECDOTE

Visible Office And Company Gifts At Work

  • Mike keeps his office visible and gives thanks from the company so female staff never receive private, personal gifts.
  • He explains cards and flower baskets are always presented as from the company to avoid one-on-one signals.
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