Toni and Ryan Does Your Boyfriend Have A List About You?
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Mar 10, 2026 They compare sleep trackers and debate how sleep scores shape your mornings. They unpack the trend of men keeping notes about partners’ likes and whether that feels sweet or creepy. Parenting mishaps get real with a forgotten dummy and a distressing echidna moment. They also celebrate small wins like takeaway drink findings and share Patreon and live-show updates.
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Men Keep Phone Notes To Remember Small Details
- Many men keep notes of partners' likes and dislikes on their phones as a practical memory aid.
- Toni and Ryan discuss examples like Subway orders, milk preference, sports teams and food aversions to show it's effort, not malice.
Lists Signal Thoughtful Effort Not Control
- What looks controlling can actually be a sign of effort: remembering orders or gift ideas shows attention.
- Ryan and Toni compare lists to Ross's pros/cons and argue tracking preferences helps relationship gestures.
Torbs' Subway Note And Two Likes Two Dislikes
- Ryan shares Torbs has a phone note titled Subway containing his exact order so he never forgets it.
- They read Torbs' two likes (sandwiches, being in water) and dislikes (mint, being late) as a concrete example.