How to Survive the End of the World Love in a F*cked Up World with Mariame Kaba
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Oct 3, 2025 Mariame Kaba, an abolitionist organizer and educator, dives into critical discussions on leadership and community dynamics. She explores the dangers of pedestalizing leaders and emphasizes the importance of accountability rooted in real relationships. Kaba addresses the complexities of cancel culture, the influence of romance on resistance work, and redefines hope as a practice of action. With insights on non-monogamy and building genuine community ties, she advocates for collective experiments and finding meaning through shared efforts.
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A Mantra To Right-Size Reactions
- A friend once asked Mariame, 'Who are these folks to you? Who are you to them?' and it became her mantra.
- That question helped her right-size reactions to online attacks and decide where to invest energy.
Reach Out When Someone Is Targeted
- If you see someone being canceled, reach out to offer support rather than distancing yourself.
- A private check-in can break the online pile-on and preserve relational possibilities.
Honest Comradeship Is Movement Wealth
- Many people lack close peers who will give honest feedback, which weakens accountability and growth.
- Cultivating relationships that allow critique is a vital but scarce form of wealth in movements.
