Shameless Sex

#319 Dominance, Submission, and Man Squirt - with Ahmir and Basirah

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Mar 7, 2023
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ADVICE

Negotiate Kink Boundaries

  • If a kink turns you off, negotiate alternatives or have your partner meet that need elsewhere safely, like with professionals or online performers.
  • Create scripts and boundaries beforehand so you can participate without killing your own arousal.
ADVICE

Script Humiliation Scenes

  • Rehearse specific lines, energy, and a do/not-do list before scenes so humiliation play suits both partners.
  • Use a mutual checklist (yes/maybe/no) to find compromises and avoid unexpected shame.
ANECDOTE

Early Kink Discovery

  • Ahmir discovered his dominant instincts at sex parties and dungeons, realizing he enjoyed choking and spanking from his teens onward.
  • He later felt proud of the first bruise he left from spanking, marking his early kink awakening.
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