The Jayson Gaddis Podcast SC 120 - How to Deal With an Angry Woman? - Terry Real
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May 3, 2017 AI Snips
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The 'First Ten Years Were Hell' Story
- An older woman told Terry her secret: the first ten years were hell and she tried to change Harry.
- After accepting 'that's Harry,' their marriage improved and lasted decades.
Parent Your Inner Child
- Parent your wounded inner parts: nurture them, set boundaries, and guide their behavior from your adult self.
- Tell your inner child, 'I will take care of you,' and refuse to let that child hurt your partner.
Regulate Distance Not Essence
- Regulate relationship distance: name whether you need more closeness or more space and make reasonable requests.
- Reasonably ask for behaviour changes like listening or less drinking; those requests are fair within a relationship.