My First Million Hinge expert shares dating advice for ambitious nerds
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May 21, 2025 
Logan Ury, the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge and author of 'How Not to Die Alone,' shares her expertise on navigating today's dating landscape. She discusses how the digital age affects romantic connections and offers tips on creating appealing online profiles. Logan explains the 'secretary problem' and how it can hinder relationship-building. The conversation also touches on the importance of weak ties and emotional intelligence in dating, along with the potential impact of AI partners on future relationships.
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Satisficers Often Happier Than Maximizers
- Satisficers who accept good enough options tend to be happier than maximizers.
- Maximizers spend more time searching and second-guess their decisions in dating.
Optimize Dating Profile Photos
- Use clear, high-quality photos showing your face without filters for dating profiles.
- Include a photo with friends to show social life and one showing an activity you enjoy.
Craft Original Comments on Apps
- Send thoughtful comments with your likes to stand out on dating apps.
- Comment on less obvious profile parts to appear more original and catch attention.
