Life Kit Supporting A Loved One In An Abusive Relationship
Mar 9, 2021
Lisa Aronson-Fontes, a Senior lecturer at the University of Massachusetts Amherst and an expert on domestic abuse, shares invaluable insights on supporting loved ones in abusive relationships. She discusses the emotional complexities of providing support, emphasizing empathy and patience. Aronson-Fontes explores the various forms of abuse, not just physical, and the deceptive charm often used by abusers. She also highlights the importance of safety planning and resources like the National Domestic Abuse Hotline for those in need.
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Victims' Coping Mechanisms
- Victims modify their behavior to avoid conflict with their abusive partners.
- This might involve avoiding displeasing topics, ensuring timely meals, or managing children's behavior.
Avoid Criticism
- Avoid criticizing the abusive partner directly.
- Abusers can be charming and loving, making victims defensive.
Cycle of Abuse
- Victims of intimate partner violence leave and return to the relationship multiple times.
- Barriers like threats, financial worries, children, and pets make leaving complex.