Ep. 92: Child Can't Handle No

When your child can't handle hearing 'NO' or gets really dysregulated when a boundary is set, it can be really hard on the whole family. Understanding the role of Frustration Tolerance in your child's reaction to hearing 'NO' can help you set them up for growing this developmental skill.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why some kids are delayed in developing this complex developmental skill
• The impact of trauma on frustration tolerance
• The role of mental models and memory processing in developing frustration tolerance
• How we can set our kids up to grow this developmental skill

Read a summary and full episode transcript at: https://robyngobbel.com/frustrationtolerance/

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