Ladies, We Need To Talk Can porn be good for women?
May 21, 2018
George McEncrow, former high school teacher and sex educator, warns about youth exposure to porn. Dr Lauren Rosewarne, academic on sex and gender, explores consumption trends and fantasies. Madison Messina, porn performer and sexologist, shares performer perspectives and industry practices. They debate porn’s cultural influence, ethical sets, education gaps, and what women actually watch.
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Porn Availability Is Reshaping Dating Expectations
- Porn is vastly more available now and women are watching in large numbers, changing dating expectations and sexual scripts.
- Pornhub logged 50,000 searches a minute and 'porn for women' grew ~360% in a year, pushing practices like anal into dating talk.
Tinder Chats Led With Anal Requests
- Kelly describes how porn-influenced men ask for anal or emulate deep-throat moves before casual conversation even starts.
- She recounts Tinder chats where guys ask about anal first and encounters where heads are pushed down in stereotypical 'porn moves'.
First Porn Shoot Left Observers Uncomfortable
- Yumi and producer Cass visit an ethical porn shoot led by Kim Comes and watch Lila, a nervous first-time performer, filming a solo scene.
- Lila brought her own clothes and toys and was paid $300 while doing hair and makeup herself.