The School of Greatness

How to Stop Reacting and Start Winning with Difficult People | Ryan Leak

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Apr 27, 2026
Ryan Leak, bestselling author and leadership consultant, dives into how to stop reacting to difficult people and protect your peace. He explores boundaries, fake friendships, people pleasing, and pre-deciding how you want to respond under pressure. He also touches on generosity, purpose, and the danger of playing it safe for another decade.
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ANECDOTE

The Church Showed Up Through Presence

  • Ryan Leak says the church shaped him most through presence, not attendance or programs.
  • When his dad had strokes 18 years apart, pastor Sam Mayo showed up at both hospitals, reinforcing Ryan Leak’s belief that church starts on Monday.
ADVICE

Use Peace Or Pause Before Saying Yes

  • Use a holy pause before big decisions instead of confusing every good option with the right one.
  • Ryan Leak prays, Lord, give me peace or pause, then weighs timing, family, travel, and whether the opportunity actually fits this season.
INSIGHT

Generosity Became The Metric For Business

  • Ryan Leak measures business success by how much his company gives away, not just what it earns.
  • He says bigger giving repeatedly coincided with unexpected contracts, shaping a business philosophy where generosity drives service, posture, and growth.
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