The Dr. John Delony Show

Should I Compromise My Values for My Girlfriend?

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Sep 5, 2022
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ADVICE

Firmly Own Your Values

  • Own your personal values firmly and never compromise them for others, including a partner.
  • Recognize and respect when your values and someone else's conflict as deal breakers.
INSIGHT

Love Alone Doesn't Ensure Value Alignment

  • Love and sexual attraction do not guarantee aligned core values.
  • Relationship longevity depends more on shared values than just attraction or love.
INSIGHT

Words Can Hide Value Differences

  • Different individuals can have the same words for values but imagine vastly different pictures.
  • Misaligned mental pictures of shared words like "actress" lead to value conflicts.
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