The Daily Confronting a Childhood Abuser
May 24, 2019
Sean Escobar, a courageous survivor of childhood abuse, shares his harrowing experience confronting his abuser, Sterling Van Wagenen, a notable figure in the film industry. Elizabeth Harris, a culture reporter at The New York Times, engages Sean in a deep discussion about the emotional turmoil and empowerment derived from that confrontation. They explore themes of trauma, accountability, and the complexities of forgiveness, shedding light on the impact such experiences have on personal relationships and the ongoing pursuit of justice.
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The Night of the Abuse
- At 13, during a sleepover at the Van Wagenen's, Sean woke up to Sterling molesting him.
- He ran to the bathroom and locked himself in, terrified.
Reporting the Abuse
- The next day, Sean told his mother about the abuse.
- Instead of going to the police, his parents reported the incident to the Mormon Church.
Lasting Trauma
- Sean's abuse left lasting trauma, including fear of the dark, being alone, and suspicion of men.
- This fear shaped his parenting, becoming overly protective to ensure his children's safety.