The School of Greatness Master Your Relationships & Attract Lasting Love w/ Jay Shetty EP 1417
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Apr 3, 2023 
Jay Shetty, a #1 New York Times bestselling author and Chief Purpose Officer of Calm, dives into the heart of love and relationships. He contrasts toxic love with conscious love, shedding light on how unresolved personal wounds can disrupt connections. Shetty emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and emotional responsibility in fostering deeper intimacy. He discusses eight rules of love and the significance of understanding personal values, highlighting the ongoing effort needed to nurture relationships for lasting fulfillment.
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Subtle Relationship Destroyers
- Seemingly small actions, repeated over time, can significantly damage relationships.
- Control, comparison, complaining about your partner to others, and criticism create distance and feelings of inadequacy.
Control vs. Support
- Avoid controlling behaviors disguised as care, such as dictating your partner's choices.
- Instead, understand and respect their values and goals, offering support rather than imposing your own.
Relationship Audit
- Audit your behavior in your relationship by tracking how often you complain, compare, criticize, or control.
- Be honest with yourself, even about internal thoughts, to identify patterns needing change.
