The Science Behind Lasting Relationships with Logan Ury

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Nov 17, 2021

Logan Ury, a behavioral scientist and dating coach, is the director of relationship science at Hinge and author of "How to Not Die Alone." She dives into the science behind creating lasting relationships, exploring modern dating dynamics compared to historical practices. Ury highlights the significance of responding to connection bids and shares strategies for enriching both romantic and workplace relationships. She emphasizes the value of having a diverse support network and examines how dating apps can foster meaningful connections.

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INSIGHT

The One Fallacy

The concept of "The One" can be harmful, giving people permission to leave good relationships.
Believing in soulmates can lead to unrealistic expectations and premature breakups.

ADVICE

Transitioning to Satisficing

To transition from maximizer to satisficer, determine if a decision truly matters.
Set time limits for decision-making and focus on how the decision makes you feel.

INSIGHT

Three Dating Tendencies

Logan Ury identifies three dating tendencies: romanticizer, maximizer, and hesitator.
Each tendency has different unrealistic expectations that hinder relationship success.

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