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From breadwinners to Bluey's Bandit — a history of Australian fathers and their families

Mar 19, 2026
Sean Scalmer, labour historian and author, explores work hours and family time. Alistair Thomson, oral historian, traces century-long shifts in fathering. Jacqui McDonald, fatherhood and mental health researcher, outlines diverse modern fathering. They discuss breadwinner roots, changing care roles, workplace pressures, time scarcity, and cultural images like Bluey’s Bandit shaping expectations.
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INSIGHT

Nurturance Is Part Of Men’s Repertoire

  • Nurturance has long been part of fathering, not exclusively a maternal trait.
  • McDonald notes boys are taught nurturance is feminine in adolescence, shaping future fathering and contributing to social disconnection.
ADVICE

Use SMS To Reach New Fathers

  • Reach fathers where they are by using mobile texts to offer support and check‑ins.
  • Richard Fletcher's SMS4dads sent messages from pregnancy to a year, giving 20,000 fathers a sense that someone cares.
ANECDOTE

Herman Mendel Showed Early Hands‑On Fathering

  • Herman Mendel, an early 20th‑century widowed working‑class dad, learned to cook, bathe children and read stories while working full‑time.
  • Alistair Thomson uses Herman to show men can defy breadwinner norms and model engaged fathering.
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