Earn Your Happy How to Take Control and Create the Life You Actually Want
Apr 2, 2026
A mindset shift from waiting to actively creating your life. Choosing facilitator mode over victim mode to change relationships and opportunities. How to start your own groups, masterminds, and meaningful conversations. Tools to make dinners and meetings more energizing and to build a curated community that propels growth.
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Why Victim Mode Feels Comfortable
- Victim mode feels normal because it's comforting to avoid responsibility.
- Lori Harder explains that seeing life as happening to you is learned programming that keeps you stuck until you choose differently.
Change Conversations By Facilitating Them
- If you don't like the conversations or people in your life, take action and change the environment.
- Lori advises bringing better questions to dinner, curating friend groups, or hosting your own mastermind to create the experience you want.
Start The Rooms You Want
- Start the rooms you want instead of waiting to be invited; they don't require fame or money.
- Lori recounts beginning mastermind-style groups before she had followers, awards, or financial success.