How Psychedelics May Shift Polyamory with Justin Natoli - Ep 44

Aug 14, 2023

Join Justin Natoli, a psychotherapist and founder of the Queer Medicine Community, as he dives into the transformative intersection of psychedelics and polyamory. He explores how these substances can help people navigate shame and past trauma in non-monogamous relationships. Justin also shares his enchanting Queer Creation story and delves into the importance of embracing authenticity in a conforming world. Discover how psychedelics can facilitate deeper connections and personal growth, ultimately reshaping love and community.

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ADVICE

Center Clients' Inner Healing

Justin centers the client's own inner healing intelligence rather than imposing a fixed model of 'normal.'
Connect therapists to clients' inner resources and reflect difficult truths to facilitate unique healing.

INSIGHT

Psychedelics Turn Shame Into Curiosity

Psychedelics can shift self-reaction from shame to curiosity, turning 'uh-oh' parts into 'wow' discoveries.
This heart-opening fosters empathy and encourages exploration of suppressed aspects of self.

ADVICE

Heal Attachment Wounds With Integration

Use psychedelics to address relational wounds rooted in early caregiver patterns and attachment dynamics.
Integrate experiences with therapy to repair relational trauma that fuels jealousy or avoidance in relationships.

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In this eye-opening episode, Jason Natoli, JD, LMFT, and founder of the Queer Medicine Community, tells us about his amazing chapter within the book, Queering Psychedelics entitled, “How Psychedelics Can Guide the Transformative Journey of Polyamory”. He discusses how psychedelics can help with three primary struggles within polyamory: shame, past trauma, and difficulty transcending labels. Then, he explains that, based on his research, people who seek out monogamy or non-monogamy, do so to either 1) avoid discomfort and satisfy desires or 2) pursue a transformative journey. And according to Justin, “For those of us who walk the transformative path of polyamory, the Universe itself is our soul mate.” In this episode, he unpacks what he means by that along with reading to us his Queer Creation story that is so magical that it’s a wonder that we have gone this long without it. And so, we hope you join us for this delightful episode, as once again, we dare to open deeply. Justin's Bio: Justin Caleb Natoli, JD, LMFT (He/She/They) is a psychotherapist, Hakomi practitioner, retreat facilitator, and founder of the Queer Medicine Community. In their private practice in Los Angeles, Justin specializes in Depth and somatic psychotherapies, trauma, addiction, psychedelic integration, and working within kink, poly, and LGBTQIA+ communities. Outside of clinical work, Justin’s mission is to spread Queer medicine through writing, speaking, and facilitating workshops and other gatherings. They serve on the Chacruna Institute’s Women, Gender Diversity, and Sexual Minorities Working Group and contributed to Chacruna’s latest book, “Queering Psychedelics.” Justin received a JD with honors from the UCLA School of Law and a Master’s in Depth psychology from the Pacifica Graduate Institute. They received a certificate in psychedelic therapy and research from CIIS and are completing a three-year program in psychedelic and transpersonal therapy through the AWE Foundation. How to find Justin Natoli: Websites: JustinNatoli.com and Queermedicine.com Instagram: TherapyWithJustin and QueerMedicineCommunity For more info on Justin's Queer Psychedelic online group every other Friday, email Justin at justin@queermedicine.com. How to find Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk How to find Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Facebook http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@opendeeplywithkateloree https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithKateLoree YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy.