TED Radio Hour

Who counts as a significant other?

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Feb 7, 2025
Raina Cohen, a journalist and author, explores the significance of platonic relationships; Stephanie Yates-Anyabwile, a marriage and family therapist, shares insights on modern relationship challenges; and Bella DePaulo, a social psychologist and expert on single life, challenges societal norms around companionship. They discuss redefining significant others beyond romantic ties, the value of deep friendships during crises, and embracing solitude as a pathway to personal growth. The role of pets as emotional support is also highlighted.
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ANECDOTE

Living Apart Together

  • A couple struggling with blended family issues improved their relationship by living apart.
  • This reduced pressure on the romantic relationship and their individual relationships with their children.
ADVICE

Address Lifestyle Factors

  • Identify specific lifestyle factors hindering communication, such as differing sleep habits.
  • Consider alternative arrangements that honor your values instead of defaulting to societal norms.
ANECDOTE

Embracing Differences

  • Yates-Anyabwile's parents drove separately to avoid conflict over punctuality versus looking one's best.
  • This demonstrates how embracing differences can lead to smoother interactions and a stronger relationship.
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