Problem Solved with Jeff Guenther and Alex Moskovich Lacking Attraction, Dry Male Orgasms, Keeping Hope Alive When Dating
Mar 10, 2026
Hosts riff on Mr. Brightside and pop culture while tackling loss of sexual desire and how to raise attraction without shaming. They debate whether men can have dry orgasms and the truth about faking climaxes. Dating burnout and ways to keep hope alive get practical tips. They also explain training to become a sex therapist and share spooky ghost stories.
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Start With Medical Checks And Gentle Communication
- Do address loss of sexual desire by separating "me" issues from "partner" issues and naming both to yourself first.
- Alex recommends checking medical causes (e.g., yeast infection) and Jeff suggests communicating changes gently to invite repair rather than blame.
Loss Of Attraction Often Reflects Behavior Not Essence
- Insight: Attraction can decline from changed habits or loss of respect, which is fixable because it often stems from observable behaviors.
- Alex and Jeff highlight that addressing specific behaviors can restore admiration and desire if handled without shaming.
Frame Attraction Feedback With Love And Specifics
- Do frame feedback with care: lead with love, describe behaviors, and invite change instead of saying "you're unattractive."
- Jeff gives the example of praising what works (dress choices) instead of criticizing graphic tees directly.