Sex Love Psychedelics 132: Squirting, Sex Hacks, + Navigating Consent Grey Zones with Kenneth Play
Embrace the Awkward
- Create a "play lab" to try new things without pressure.
- Embrace awkwardness and expect a learning curve.
Components of Great Sex
- Good sex involves feeling, calibration, flow, and self-expression.
- These components build upon each other, like surfing a wave.
Squirting and Emotional Connection
- Learn squirting techniques, not as a party trick, but to understand nerve endings.
- Feeling emotions supports sexual pleasure because of the vagus nerve.
International sex expert and sex educator and author of the new book Beyond Satisfied, Kenneth Play joins me to give us some techniques for face sitting, oral sex, flow states, and navigating the grey zone in consent. …This whole episode is full of skills to start incorporating in your sex play NOW.
There’s so much we can discover about our bodies + about sex. When we approach it not from an achievement standpoint, but from a playful exploration… “let’s see what we can learn”, it can keep sex novel, fun, + something to look forward to.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
- Sex hacking + how to become beyond satisfied in bed
- What is a “play lab”? How can “embracing the awkward” improve your sex life?
- How important are techniques in satisfying sex? And what are some favorites?
- Kenneth’s components that make up the art of great sex - Feeling, Calibration, Erotic Flow State, Self-Expression
- Techniques for female ejaculation + squirting
- How feeling your emotions supports your sexual pleasure
- Where the vagus nerve sits in the male body vs the female body
- Sex hacks for stimulating the prostate + back to back orgasms
- Discovering the “pleasure wiring” for yourself + your partner
- The psychedelic experience of rhythm + orgasm
- The vulnerability of receiving + learning how to be in a receptive role
- Simplifying instruction in arousal - Location, Pressure, Speed
- Face sitting and either taking or receiving
- Suggestions for those who have an emotional response in sex
- Negotiation + finding an agreement where both people get what they need
- Grey zone as it relates to consent -- ambiguous unclear, hard to read, not always a fuck yes
- + MORE!
THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS
Kenneth Play is an international sex expert and sex educator. Named the world’s greatest sex hacker by GQ, he has been featured by more than one hundred media outlets, including The New York Times, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, Huffington Post, and Nightline. Kenneth has been a guest lecturer on female sexual pleasure at New York University and San Jose State University. His work has helped millions of men gain lasting confidence and competence. AskMen described Kenneth’s most recent course as having “at least one nugget of sexual learning you’ve almost certainly never encountered before, if not several.
Check out Kenneth’s book: https://www.amazon.com/Beyond-Satisfied-Mind-Blowing-Connection-Confidence/dp/1544516347
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