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2/28/26 – Shiur 550 – How Mental Illness Can Wreck a Marriage and a Divorce

Feb 27, 2026
Mark Schreck, a veteran frum divorce attorney; Dr. Jacob Friedman, a Harvard-trained psychiatrist; Dr. Shmuel Harris, expert on personality disorders; Rabbi Yoni Rosensweig, halakhic mental-health advocate; and Rabbi Moshe Mordechai Lowy, prominent posek. They explore nondisclosure of disorders in marriage. They discuss mikveh and intimacy used as leverage. They cover when to involve secular courts and how personality disorders shape litigation and treatment.
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ADVICE

Use Secular Courts Only For Genuine Danger

  • Avoid secular courts unless immediate danger exists; consult a bes din or qualified rav before seeking restraining orders or public litigation.
  • Lowy warns many false abuse claims are fabricated to weaponize secular courts.
INSIGHT

Seeking Mental Health Care Becomes A Halachic Obligation

  • A halachic obligation to seek treatment arises when mental illness reaches functional impairment; mental health is treated like other illnesses requiring refuah.
  • Rabbi Yoni Rosensweig links the duty to seek care to definitions of choleh and functional loss.
ADVICE

Pause Between Treatments To Restore Stability

  • If repeated treatments fail and cause instability, consider a structured break to restore routine and stability before trying another intervention.
  • Rabbi Yoni Rosensweig recommends pauses to regain anchors rather than endless therapy-hopping.
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