Top 5 Ways to Thrive Not Survive! How Meditation, Somatic Work & Building Interpersonal Trust Can Dramatically Improve How You Feel Each Day w/ Dan Harris

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Sep 5, 2025

In this enlightening discussion, Dan Harris, author of *10% Happier* and esteemed journalist, dives into the world of meditation and mental well-being. He shares his personal battles with anxiety and claustrophobia, emphasizing that meditation is more about consistency than perfection. The conversation explores the transformative power of visualization, the role of interpersonal relationships in our happiness, and innovative therapeutic techniques like EMDR. Dan also teases insights from his upcoming book redefining love as a vital force for our well-being.

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INSIGHT

Progress Obsession Harms Practice

Obsessing about progress kills the point of meditation and creates paralysis.
Surrender to the long, mysterious process and focus on showing up rather than perfect results.

ANECDOTE

Claustrophobia That Worsened After COVID

Dan developed intense claustrophobia affecting elevators, MRIs and planes and often medicated to fly.
After family pressure he began aggressively addressing it with exposure and other therapies.

ADVICE

Rehearse Fear To Retrain The Brain

Use exposure therapy and imagined rehearsal to retrain the brain's safety associations.
Practice imagining feared situations while noticing you survive the physiological response.

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We sat down with our friend Dan Harris (author of 10% Happier, journalist, and meditation teacher) for a raw, unscripted conversation about anxiety, meditation, and what it really means to live with more calm and connection.

What began as Mayim confessing her nerves quickly unfolded into an exploration of habit formation, the messy reality of meditation practice, and why "success" doesn’t mean never feeling anxious again. Dan shared personal stories of facing claustrophobia, panic on planes, and the unexpected childhood memories that surfaced through brainspotting and therapy. Jonathan weighed in on consciousness, body memory, and the ways stress embeds itself in us—and how practices like EMDR or somatic work can help release it.

The conversation didn’t stop there. We also touched on:

Why perfection isn’t the goal of meditation—and why simply "showing up" matters
The difference between trauma, stress, and the everyday burdens of being human
The role of visualization and faith (secular or otherwise) in rewiring the brain
How relationships and connection shape our survival, health, and happiness
Dan’s upcoming book about redefining love, not just as romance, but as the essential force behind our well-being and even our survival as a species

We hope this live encourages you to judge yourself a little less, and lean on others a little more.

Dan Harris' Substack: https://www.danharris.com/

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