Being Human Episode 48: Why Do I Keep Doing the Things I Don't Want to Do?
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Nov 16, 2021 A discussion about why we keep repeating unwanted behaviors and the ancient and modern ideas that shed light on that struggle. Reflections on St. Paul and St. Thérèse bring spiritual-psychological perspective. Practical approaches include treating inner parts with compassion, listening to what they protect, and reshaping self-protection patterns.
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Paul's Ancient Complaint Feels Modern
- St. Paul describes persistent internal conflict where he does what he hates and cannot do what he wants.
- Greg Bottaro connects this to everyday examples like impatience and addiction to show its universal relevance.
Brain Wiring Explains Repeating Bad Habits
- Human brains are initially wired for self-protection and egocentric needs, which explains recurring selfish or protective behaviors.
- Bottaro emphasizes we all start as needy infants and that these survival features can persist into adulthood.
How St Thérèse's Little Way Inspired Psychological Insight
- Greg Bottaro recalls being drawn to St. Thérèse for her psychological insight and 'little way' doctrine.
- He notes her acute self-awareness about giving herself the benefit of the doubt and applying that charity to others.