AuDHD Flourishing 127 Diagnosed After My Kid with Julie M Green
Jan 17, 2026
Julie M. Green, author of *Motherness: A Memoir of Generational Autism, Parenthood, and Radical Acceptance*, discusses her journey as a late-diagnosed autistic parent. She shares insights on navigating early motherhood challenges, advocating for her child's education, and exploring their gender identity together. Julie emphasizes the importance of individualized support over traditional methods, unlearning perfectionism, and the humor found amidst struggles. Her story highlights radical acceptance and the unique experiences of parenting an autistic child.
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Support Exploration, Don't Rush Decisions
- Do affirm and support trans or gender-exploring youth and avoid forcing premature medical or social decisions on them.
- Recognize that uncertainty is normal and parental support improves mental health outcomes.
Early Motherhood Was Overwhelming
- Julie describes extreme early parenting struggles with sleep deprivation, sensory overwhelm, and postpartum depression after her son's birth.
- She later learned his early crying likely related to sensory discomfort and early signs of autism.
School Fit Required Constant Changes
- School was repeatedly a poor fit: Carson hid, meltdowned, and required frequent pickups and advocacy from Julie.
- They changed school formats multiple times, including a brief period of homeschooling.
