Eric Zimmer, behavior coach, author, and creator of The One You Feed, explores how tiny choices can reshape communication. He talks about the knowing-doing gap, breaking autopilot with awareness, and building habits through small repeated actions. The conversation also touches on motivation, discomfort, and why connection matters more than perfect wording.
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How Addiction Recovery Shaped Eric Zimmer's View
Eric Zimmer says getting sober at 24 after homelessness, heroin addiction, hepatitis C, and possible decades in jail shaped how he sees all behavior change.
He argues lessons from recovery also apply to everyday life because modern culture is addictive in many forms.
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The Two Wolves Explain Inner Conflict
The two wolves parable works because it captures a deeper truth: people are motivationally complex and constantly pulled by conflicting values.
Eric Zimmer says change starts by noticing each choice feeds either kindness and bravery or greed and fear.
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Use Still Points To Train Awareness
Build communication awareness by pausing to notice what you think and feel instead of running on autopilot during important interactions.
Eric Zimmer uses still points: attach a check-in to a routine moment like bathroom visits and repeat it several times daily.
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Real change isn’t about knowing what to do — it’s about actually doing it, one small choice at a time.
Change doesn’t come from one big breakthrough. It comes from the small choices we make over and over — often in moments we barely notice.
Eric Zimmer, behavior coach, host of The One You Feedpodcast, and author of How A Little Becomes A Lot, says the real challenge isn’t figuring out what to do — it’s closing the gap between knowing and doing. “We all have areas where we know exactly what would help,” he says. “But somehow, we still don’t follow through.” His approach focuses on something simpler and more effective: small, low-resistance actions done consistently over time. “It’s not about doing everything,” Zimmer explains. “It’s about doing something — again and again — in the same direction.”
In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Zimmer joins host Matt Abrahams to unpack how lasting change actually happens. From building awareness in the middle of everyday life to designing habits that are easier to stick with, he shares practical strategies for turning intention into action. “You don’t need to wait until you feel ready,” he says. “You can act even when it’s uncomfortable.”
Think Fast Talk Smart: Communication Techniques 
