The Kink Consultant Everything You Need to Know Before Going Through the Back Door with Annette Benedetti
Oct 17, 2025
Join Annette Benedetti, a certified sex and intimacy coach and host of Talk Sex with Annette, as she dives deep into the pleasures of anal play. Annette shares practical tips for preparation and cleanliness, discusses essential toys, and emphasizes the power of communication and consent. She breaks down the myths surrounding virginity and highlights the importance of curiosity over shame. With laughter and real-life advice, listeners will gain confidence to explore this intimate adventure safely and joyfully.
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The Double Standard On Experience
- Society rewards sexual experience in men but praises inexperience in women, creating a double standard.
- Annette highlights how this hypocrisy devalues women's sexual skill and agency.
Prep For Anal With A Gentle Enema
- Expect the possibility of poop and prep accordingly when considering anal play.
- Annette recommends using a warm water enema about an hour before and repeating until the water runs clear.
Choose Training Plugs Wisely
- Start anal training with softer, elongated silicone plugs if you're nervous, then progress to firmer glass if preferred.
- Use longer, slender training shapes so you can push further once comfortable.