Everything's Psychology The Psychology of Kink & Fetish
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May 12, 2025 
Lori Beth Bisbey, a psychologist and intimacy coach, dives deep into the fascinating world of kinks and fetishes. She discusses how societal perceptions and media representations shape our understanding of these practices. The conversation highlights consent and the importance of open communication in enhancing intimacy. Bisbey also explores the psychological implications of engaging in kink, the history of sexual classification in psychology, and the positive impact of sexual satisfaction on relationships. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion!
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Child Abuse Not Cause of Kink
- Research finds no causal link between childhood abuse and kink development.
- Many kink desires exist before any abuse, dispelling a common myth.
Innate Nature of Kink and Research Focus
- Lori Beth believes kink is largely innate and familial with genetic influences.
- Sexology likely won't solve origin mysteries; time is better spent on more urgent research.
Educate and Reduce Sexual Shame
- Educate clients with context about sexual interests, focusing on health over normality.
- Offering permission and reducing shame supports healthy acceptance of diverse sexuality.
