The School of Greatness

Signs You’re Dating a Narcissist & How to Know If You Are One w/Dr. Ramani Durvasula (PART 1) EP 1195

Nov 29, 2021
Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a licensed clinical psychologist and author, discusses the intricate world of narcissism and its impact on relationships. She reveals key traits of narcissists, explaining how social media amplifies their behaviors. The conversation dives into whether narcissists can truly feel love and offers strategies like the 'DEEP' Technique for dealing with them. Listeners will learn to identify red flags and appreciate the complexities of loving a narcissist, making this a compelling exploration of a prevalent societal issue.
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ANECDOTE

Kobe's Upbringing

  • Kobe Bryant's father loved him unconditionally, regardless of his basketball performance.
  • This unconditional love gave Kobe confidence, but such support is rare.
INSIGHT

Narcissist vs. Psychopath

  • Narcissists and psychopaths share traits like boldness and manipulativeness, but narcissists are insecure.
  • Psychopaths lack anxiety and empathy, prioritizing power and exhibiting a cold demeanor.
ADVICE

Dealing with Narcissists

  • If you spot narcissistic traits, radical acceptance is key: accept they won't change.
  • Use the DEEP technique: Don't Defend, Engage, Explain, or Personalize.
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