S3E32 - ADHD Diagnosis: What Parents Need to Think Through

In this episode, I answer a question from a mom who is trying to decide whether to pursue an ADHD evaluation for her six-year-old while he is already in play therapy. I walk through the larger issue many parents face — the pressure to evaluate, diagnose, and medicate quickly — and how that differs from a child-centered approach that looks at the whole child first. I explain why behavior should never be reduced to a snapshot moment in time and why dysregulation, anxiety, power struggles, and lack of emotional vocabulary can often look like ADHD on the surface.

I also clarify that an evaluation is simply a tool for information. It does not force you to medicate, label, or take any specific path. You remain in control of what you do with the results. My perspective is to pursue the least invasive support first — allowing play therapy to address regulation, self-esteem, and emotional development — and then make informed decisions if concerns remain. This episode is about helping parents slow down, think holistically, and make decisions from clarity rather than pressure.

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Common References: Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge.