Elevate with Robert Glazer Weekend Conversations: You Don't Own Other People's Emotions
Mar 21, 2026
A lively conversation about the mantra "all feelings are welcome, but not all behaviors are." They explore why validating emotions matters while still holding people accountable. Topics include leadership parallels with parenting, where to draw the line on unacceptable behavior, social media’s role in outrage, and practical tools like cool-off periods and consistent enforcement.
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All Feelings Are Welcome But Not All Behaviors
- Dr. Aliza Pressman's mantra reframes leadership: welcome emotions but limit behaviors.
- Robert Glazer argues this applies beyond parenting to organizations, correcting extremes of suppression or indulgence.
Validate Feelings Then Uphold Standards
- Validate people's emotions but set clear limits on actions that harm norms.
- Use examples like a disappointed child or change to benefits to acknowledge feelings while enforcing rules.
Birthday Jacket Meltdown That Was Rewarded
- Robert recalls a childhood meltdown over a birthday jacket he didn't get.
- His parents' reaction (likely guilt and a possible reward) taught him how unchecked tantrums can be reinforced.
