The Unplugged Alpha TUA # 145 - Instantly Unattractive RED Flags
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Oct 10, 2024 Dive into a compelling discussion on what makes a woman instantly unattractive. Key red flags include accountability issues, keeping male friends, and progressive views. The conversation critiques traits like loudness and the 'boss girl' persona, while exploring unhealthy habits like smoking and poor hygiene. Richard also warns against social validation seekers and emphasizes punctuality as a sign of respect. Expect insights on emotional baggage, entitlement, and how authenticity in appearance plays a crucial role in attraction.
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Look For Simple Appreciation
- Expect appreciation from a date; lack of gratitude signals entitlement and should be a red flag.
- Cooper says simple thanks after a date is a strong green flag, while unappreciative behavior signals avoidance.
Check What She Actually Brings
- Assess what a woman actually brings versus what she expects you to provide; many seek partners 'above' them.
- Cooper warns hypergamy means women often demand more value than they contribute.
Public Provocativeness Reveals Priority
- Public social validation (provocative posts) signals she markets herself to others, not exclusively to you.
- Cooper says provocative public posts while asking 'where is this going?' reveal she still seeks external options.
