Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Fat Shaming, Self-Esteem & Late Pregnancies

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Mar 27, 2026
A candid post-fight conversation that turns into a deep dive on body image, looksmaxing forums, and workplace fat-shaming. They unpack social media pressures, GLP-1 trends, and the line between hygiene and discrimination. Later segments cover self-esteem origins from attachment and realistic conversations about sex, orgasm changes, and parenting when pregnant later in life.
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ANECDOTE

Hosts' Fight Reveals How Stress Amplifies Conflict

  • Kirk and Rebecca had a rare intense argument triggered by immigration activism comments and mutual fear for safety.
  • Rebecca called her partner who then checked on her after the fight, showing immediate interpersonal repair and support.
INSIGHT

Looksmaxing Emerges From Loneliness Not Vanity

  • The looksmaxing trend reflects deep loneliness and trauma driving extreme body modification among young men.
  • Forum posts show 14–15 year-olds using steroids and obsessing over jawlines and height as a path to belonging.
ADVICE

Resist Quick Fixes For Appearance Insecurity

  • Avoid drastic body changes to chase social acceptance and instead address the underlying shadow issues with therapy.
  • Rebecca recommends befriending the shadow and resisting damaging acts like hitting your cheekbones or teenage steroid use.
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