The Daily Dad It’s Not a Goal to Be Impressed By
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Feb 25, 2026 A conversation about why we push fame and power onto kids and whether that ambition is worthy. A look at Marcus Aurelius as an example of someone who feared power and prized humility. A discussion on raising children toward modest, fulfilling lives and using Stoic stories to teach those values.
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Power And Fame Are Not Universal Goals
- Many children don't crave power, fame, or wealth; Marcus Aurelius reportedly wept at becoming emperor and preferred a quiet life.
- Ryan Holiday highlights Marcus's wariness of power and contentment with modest, fulfilling work as a model for parenting choices.
Author Wrote Stoic Fable For His Kids
- Ryan Holiday shares that Marcus Aurelius lost his father at three but was raised well and didn't lust for power.
- He relates this fable to his own family, saying he wrote the book for his kids and read it to them during the pandemic.
Support Your Child's Path Not Your Ambition
- Don't pressure children toward fame or power for parental reasons; prioritize their individual happiness.
- Ryan Holiday advises supporting whatever path your child chooses rather than imposing ambition to impress others.
