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Ep 34: How do you make friends as an adult?

Jun 16, 2023
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INSIGHT

Friendship Impacts Mind And Body

  • Friendship strongly affects both mental and physical health through hormones and immune responses.
  • Different loneliness types (intimate, relational, communal) explain why one close tie isn't enough.
ADVICE

Join Repeated Activities

  • Join repeat, interest-based communities to capitalise on the mere exposure effect and meet familiar faces.
  • Show up engaged and avoid 'covert avoidance' like being on your phone to actually build liking.
INSIGHT

Rejection Anxiety Is Self-Fulfilling

  • People overestimate how much others will reject them, which makes them act cold and actually cause rejection.
  • Believing you'll be accepted leads you to behave warmer and be liked more.
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