Dating Intentionally 207. Male POV: Dating IRL In Your 30's w/ Alex Koren
Oct 31, 2025
In this engaging discussion, Alex Koren, a creative mind behind the Random Acts of Dating project, shares his views on in-person dating versus apps. He explains how apps can feel like interviews, limiting genuine connections. Alex provides insights from his experience on a live dating show, boosting his confidence to approach strangers. He emphasizes the value of friend-hosted gatherings and offers unique tips for initiating conversations in public. His innovative card concept sparks low-pressure exchanges, showing that real-life connections can be both fun and rewarding.
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Digital Filters Can Hide Real Matches
- Digital filters prune potential matches but also exclude people who could surprise you.
- Meeting offline can reveal qualities not captured by profile checkboxes.
Lower Pressure Is The In-Person Advantage
- In-person meetings carry lower worst-case outcomes because they can become friendships.
- That lower pressure makes interactions smoother and more enjoyable.
Bring A Buddy — But Don’t Hide Behind Them
- Bring a friend to singles events for comfort but push yourself to mingle with others.
- Use the friend as a safety net, not a permanent anchor for the night.