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Everything I Wish I Knew About Sex When I Was In My 20s

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Feb 10, 2026
Susan Bratton, intimacy expert and creator of Drive Desire, shares candid stories from her own sex journey and practical approaches to rekindling connection. She explores anatomy, orgasm diversity, duty sex, foreplay techniques, remote intimacy tech, and communication tools. Short, frank, and provocative conversations about learning pleasure and rebuilding lasting desire.
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INSIGHT

Sex Is Bigger Than Intercourse

  • Sex is intimate connection and orgasmic pleasure, not just intercourse.
  • Many benefits of sex come from oxytocin and orgasmic states that improve health and empathy.
ANECDOTE

From 11 Years Without Orgasms To Ignition

  • Susan recounts 11 years of sex without orgasms while married to her husband Tim.
  • Radical honesty, sex workshops, and an expanded orgasm practice reignited her pleasure and intercourse orgasms.
ADVICE

Make A Sex Bucket List

  • Create a sex-life bucket list and plan erotic playdates to learn new skills.
  • Treat sexual learning like practice: repeat new activities three times to gain mastery.
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