Rhythms for Life Beyond the Soulmate Myth: Building Marriages That Last with Dr. Brad Wilcox
May 21, 2025
Dr. Brad Wilcox, a prominent sociologist and director of the National Marriage Project, explores the enduring relevance of marriage in modern society. He challenges the 'soulmate myth' and other misconceptions, presenting data that shows married individuals enjoy greater happiness and financial benefits. Dr. Wilcox discusses how 'expressive individualism' has impacted marriage since the 1970s and offers practical advice for young adults considering marriage. He emphasizes the importance of building a strong friendship and shared values before tying the knot.
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Marriage Correlates With Greater Flourishing
- Contrary to popular narratives, married people—especially married mothers—tend to have better financial and emotional outcomes.
- Both men and women generally flourish more financially and emotionally when married with kids.
Intact Families Protect Boys' Futures
- Boys raised in non-intact families face much higher risks of incarceration than of graduating college.
- Intact married-parent homes strongly predict better educational and legal outcomes for boys.
Marriage Narrows The Gender Divide
- Marriage often bridges gender divides by exposing partners to each other's perspectives.
- That mutual exposure moderates cultural and political polarization and strengthens parenting and workplace insight.
