The Simplicity Parenting Podcast with Kim John Payne #20: Should I Arrange This Playdate? (Simplicity Diary)
Nov 20, 2018
Navigating playdate dilemmas is tough for parents! Discover how to balance calm and stimulating days using a unique C/S calendar system. Learn to evaluate your week to decide if a playdate fits your child's rhythm. Find out how to explain a 'no' to your child thoughtfully, fostering understanding. When the week allows, saying yes can help children grasp decision-making. Plus, tips on coaching kids to accept scheduling choices with respect and authority. Remember, not every playdate is a good fit for every child!
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Track Calm Versus Stimulating Days
- Balance your child's week by labeling days as calm (C) or stimulating (S) to spot overall patterns.
- Aim for a mix of C and S days so high-energy days don't pile up and overwhelm the child.
Consultant Mother Used C/S Calendar
- A mother who was an efficiency consultant marked each day on the calendar as C or S after reading Simplicity Parenting.
- That simple tracking helped her balance her child's week intentionally.
Decide Playdates By The Week's Rhythm
- Look back over recent days and forward to upcoming plans before agreeing to a playdate.
- Say no when the week is already stimulating or yes when the schedule allows a calm slot.