The Mating Grounds Podcast How To Be Attractive To Women, Pt. 3: The Tender Defender (The Nice Guy vs. The Asshole)
Oct 20, 2014
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Aftershave Example That Mattered
- Tucker bought and started using the aftershave his girlfriend liked after she mentioned it casually.
- The small gesture impressed her and increased affection without any drama.
Be Decisive Without Being Dominating
- Avoid submissiveness and conflict avoidance; assert your beliefs calmly while respecting hers.
- Make decisions instead of deferring, but remain open to negotiation and respectful disagreement.
Make Specific Date Decisions
- Make specific plans and ask if they work for her instead of asking open-ended questions.
- Offer alternatives when she objects so you lift decision burden while respecting her agency.